I posted this on the comment page of a blog that really caught my interest. The author was asking why he seems to have it all when it comes to career, friends, etc. But when it came to matters of the heart and love, he feels unlucky. I don't know, but being single myself, here are a few things i could advise him:
if you choose to linger on negative thoughts, then you'll really feel unlucky. but if you focus on the positive aspects of being single and unattached, you won't feel that way. how do you see a glass of water? is it half empty or half full?
how do you view your life? as far as i know, single people can still be lucky. why not focus on the more important facets of your life first? because maybe god is letting you work on them now before you get too involved with someone.
remember, being with someone whether you love that person so dearly or you're just attached for the heck of it doesn't equate happiness and luck. i think the lord wants you to find yourself first before you can find that someone for you.
try reading "joyfully single" by harold sala. it'll help you ease out the worries you might be having for failing to find your one true love and in the process, mold you into becoming the best person for the woman god has planned to be with you for the rest of your life.
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My discernment could be wrong. It is only the person who could truly understand his situation. But there's no point in getting all frustrated just because love seems to be aloof.
Love will come in the most perfect time God chooses. There's no point in forcing it to happen.
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