it's the month of may once again and oh my, i'm getting older again. hayyy, there's this someone i almost fell in love with who turned out to be...forget it. there are a few who have been trying to pursue but are failing miserably (i feel like hiding) and then there is that one wish floating in the air waiting for forever!
here are a few things in love i have learned (the hard way) these past couple of years and i guess, writing them down wouldn't hurt. here they are:
1. never assume - just because he looks at you in a different way, he actually likes you. if he does, he would have approached you and told you quickly
2. live in the present - try not to regret about what could have been if you did differently in the past. there's a reason why it is in the past, it's done already, there's no way to change it. try to learn from it and think of the things that will make a better now.
3. be deserving - you can't change the person you love but if you deserve being treated right then they might think about your feelings first before they even do those things that could hurt you.
4. be whole - find your own being, your own happiness and then you can share that same happiness to someone. don't ever think a man will complete you if you are damaged yourself.
5. be free - stop being stiff and fancy. be yourself and if someone will actually like the person they see in you, then you actually hit jackpot 'coz then you won't have to play someone else for the rest of your life or be blamed for not being honest.
6. love those you could still love - while there is still time and we all know how short life is, love as much as you can those who matter to you like family and friends for we wouldn't know how long they will be with us.
7. never lose faith in God - i strongly believe we all have a purpose no matter if we find it hard to find out what it is...i just think that God is the wind that carries us through, and we just have to keep sailing through and never stop.
here are a few things in love i have learned (the hard way) these past couple of years and i guess, writing them down wouldn't hurt. here they are:
1. never assume - just because he looks at you in a different way, he actually likes you. if he does, he would have approached you and told you quickly
2. live in the present - try not to regret about what could have been if you did differently in the past. there's a reason why it is in the past, it's done already, there's no way to change it. try to learn from it and think of the things that will make a better now.
3. be deserving - you can't change the person you love but if you deserve being treated right then they might think about your feelings first before they even do those things that could hurt you.
4. be whole - find your own being, your own happiness and then you can share that same happiness to someone. don't ever think a man will complete you if you are damaged yourself.
5. be free - stop being stiff and fancy. be yourself and if someone will actually like the person they see in you, then you actually hit jackpot 'coz then you won't have to play someone else for the rest of your life or be blamed for not being honest.
6. love those you could still love - while there is still time and we all know how short life is, love as much as you can those who matter to you like family and friends for we wouldn't know how long they will be with us.
7. never lose faith in God - i strongly believe we all have a purpose no matter if we find it hard to find out what it is...i just think that God is the wind that carries us through, and we just have to keep sailing through and never stop.
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